Saturday, November 1, 2014

Fun never ends.

Let me start with the latest fun experience  I had.  I think from this moment on I will give up telling people I am American. IT is just easier to tell them that. If I say I am Estonian, gazillion questions follow, and I am not in the mood to explain all the details why, how, when, no It is Russia, it is not Estonia...


Anyway, so last night was Halloween. I did not dress up this year . Just wore my sexy mini dress and headed out. First I stopped at local cafe called Yuan cafe. I love the owner Rebecca, very sweet and caring person. I have never had problems there . It is safe and warm place to go to have coffee or meal . Food is western and I always meet people I know there.

This time something different happened. As I went out for a smoke, I could see from far away few drunk Chinese approaching. I did not do anything. I just stood there and smoked my cigarette.  I know now better, to stay away from Drunk chinese. They are horrible. SO they kept coming closer, and closer, and closer. Suddenly one guy just looked at me and asked , "Where are you from?" I said, I am from USA. I am American.  And then hell broke loose. He poked my shoulder with her finger same time shouting, Obama stupid, Obama Not good, Obama disgrace to world... All that in Chinese. He said more  ugly things, but I just stood there . At one point I tried to distinguish fire and told him. Yes, that is why I am in China... America not for me.. HE calmed down. And offered me cigarette.. And then it started again..  Why are you beautiful woman from america.. I tried to explain, that I was born in Estonia.. But he would not listen. All he could hear was AMERICA... Long story short... After 25 minutes of kind of "harassing" me with his Anti America speech security showed up. What drove me insane inside was the fact that his friends were just standing there and watching. At one point, when one friend tried to  take him away, he started yelling at his friend, and then friends took a step back.  I was actually getting little scared and annoyed and angry same tie, but I kept it together. I did not need more drama in my life. So security came and  escorted out of cafe. He stood behind cafe window for few more minutes, talking loud about something and then left...

I took a deep breath in and said to myself.. IT's fine. Everything is ok... WHEWW...

After that incident, few of my friends showed up, and we headed to next spot to celebrate Halloween.  Mood was amazing, and people actually put extra effort into their costumes. It was such a colorful night with all the right people around me.  Drinking, food, then some dancing....

My night ended up early to be honest.   Lately I am back to my Going to places alone mode. If I get tired on one place, I take a cab and go to next spot. So I did same this time.   Left my neighborhood bar and headed to Coco club , that is about 3 km away from us. They just recently opened up with major changes. New owners, and place actually has great music . Not sure what was happening, but this  time around party promotes bought over whole buss full of dudes From all around Africa.. Not african americans, but Africans.. In hangzhou, Black community is growing quit fast. It is interesting to see, how much things have change  since I moved here 4 years ago.  It is getting more and more international.
SO anyway, one of my friends also showed up, and we ended drinking and just flirting at the bar. He is not much into dancing..  So, with his permission I just  asked first available dude who looked like he could dance on to a dance floor..  As it came out he was Also from Nigeria, just like my friend who I have known now for over a year..   As I was going on to a dance floor, I missed a step, and sprained my ankle really badly, but since I had couple of drinks in me, I did not care much for the pain.  I kept dancing till He started getting little to excited-- If  You know what I mean.... I left the dance floor  and back to the bar where my friend was waiting for me.

We chatted and flirted whole lot more... Oh yeah, i love to flirt.. It is a part of  me... Very flirty when I feel like it, and if I see what I like... It was time for him to leave and he left. I stayed for few more minutes longer and headed back to the bar where I started my night..    Since my foot was starting to hurt a little, I decided to cut my night short..   As I was heading home, I heard a familiar voice .. Yup, my friend was also heading for the same bar.. But I was getting little tired, and decided to leave home anyways...

To make things really bad... As I was walking home, I stumbled  and sprained my ankle second time... Oh fuck, this time pain hit me really hard..  I did not wanna go to a doctor in the middle of the night. So I went home.. Took a long shower..... while I was in the middle of my tooth brushing I heard a knock on my door... ... I was like WTF... Trick or treating is over.... No more candy to hand out...   But I was in for a treat... My  friend showed up, and  rest of it history..  After he left in the morning I called my ex husband and asked him to help me out with doctor. He was nice enough to drive me to hospital, help get ex rays and deal with paperwork...

Luckily  my feet is not broken, just really badly strained. Walking on crutches, hoping for a quick recovery.

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